Boundless Loves our Newbies and Solo Participants

Newbies and solo participants are welcome at Boundless.  All participants are required to carefully read the Boundless Consent Policy, Code of Conduct, and Tips for Successful Negotiation, found on this website. Just after you arrive, please be sure to attend Introduction to Boundless & Tour of the Facilities.  Information for attendance will be provided at check-in. During the event, feel free to approach a Conduct Team Member, Dungeon Monitor, or Admin person to ask any questions.

All attendees should have realistic expectations about finding new play partners.  Like any other sexually open venue, there is no guarantee that you will find someone to play with.  Much of this will depend on your ability to meet, clearly communicate, and negotiate with potential partners. There are many opportunities to meet and get to know others, both friends and potential play partners.  For example: during or after classes, in the hot tub or pool area, at mealtimes, etc.  Notice that these are all outside of actual play times or areas.

Everyone is welcome to come into a play area, but no one should intrude on a scene already in play.  Treating every scene and the players within each scene with respect is extremely important. While you may possibly negotiate an encounter with a new partner inside a play space, it is usually better to meet and negotiate in a neutral space.

How you play is important, too. It is important to play up to your level of experience.  Boundless offers opportunities to learn basic skills and hone your current skill sets. Whether you are new to Boundless, BDSM, or public play, it is important to play safely at all times.  Knowing your partner’s hard and soft limits is crucial, and both parties are responsible for adhering to them at all times during play.

Another critical concept is aftercare. This is time spent with your play partner to cuddle, talk, debrief and/or “come down” from the play you engaged in. Boundless considers aftercare support important, and provides a space designed for aftercare, cuddling, and reflective activity.

Boundless is a fun-filled event with amazing participants.  It is great place to learn about yourself, experience BDSM-related play and to meet other sex-positive, open-minded people. To this end, we at Boundless hope you truly enjoy your time with us.