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Transgender-Affirming Impact Play: Honoring Identities Through Touch w/ Nyxie Noc

Date: Sunday, May 18, 2025
Time: 2:00-4:00pm PDT
Location:
This is a 90-minute in-person class that will be hosted at:
Flux Vertical Theater
811 University Ave Suite 104
Berkeley, CA 94710
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Class Description
Impact play can be an incredible tool for connection, empowerment, and pleasure—but how do we ensure it feels affirming for transgender and nonbinary partners? This demo-based class explores how to approach impact play with care, respect, and deep consideration for trans bodies and identities.
We’ll cover how to ask sensitive questions about body parts, adapt techniques to accommodate unique physical needs, and offer affirming feedback and aftercare. Through discussion and demonstration, we’ll practice language and strategies that foster safety, agency, and joy.
Nyxie Noc (they/she/he) is a queer, genderfluid D-type and experienced educator passionate about fostering safer, more connected communities through the principles of agency, consent, and equity. With a career that spans roles as a dominatrix, fetish content producer, kink educator, Consent and Conduct team leader, and community consultant, Nyxie brings a wealth of expertise and a unique perspective to their work.
Nyxie has supported consent teams and safer-play orientations for over 850 participants and trained over 100 staff members in sex-positive organizations. Their workshops and lectures, like “Agency in Consensual Kink” and “Ethical Dominance,” challenge participants to reimagine relationships and play through the lens of empowerment and intentionality.
They’ve collaborated with organizations such as Boundless Events, AfterDark Events, and Stopgap Dungeon, and were a featured presenter for SF Leather Week’s Folsom Street Fair 2024. Known for their warm, approachable teaching style and innovative frameworks, like the BURGERS for Agency model, Nyxie inspires individuals and groups to deepen their understanding of connection and inclusivity.
Nyxie lives in San Francisco and is available for coaching, consulting, and event instruction. Reach them at viridiluxconsulting@gmail.com or visit their website at www.viridiluxconsulting.com/nyxienoc.
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