Midori - 2023 Boundless Instructor in Residence

2023 BOundless Instructor IN RESIDENCE

Dubbed “The Super Nova of Kink” by Dan Savage, Midori (she/her) is an artistic visionary who has touched lives across the globe with her expertise in sexuality, personal fulfillment, and kinky adventures. Using her “head-heart-hands” methodology she facilitates tackling challenging topics and creating space where people are allowed individual self-exploration.

Her incredible passion is fully on display in her transformative small group intensives, including Rope Dojo®, ForteFemme: Women’s Dominance Weekend Intensive, and The Wanted Man intensive with Marcia Baczynski.

You can learn more about her coaching and education at

Midori at The Boundless Retreat


Hot Squirming – Erotic Humiliation Play: The Why. The how. The What to Avoid

Why do people get off on being embarrassed or humiliated? Is this a style of play you’ve struggled to understand or be understood? Do you want to understand how to do this well and avoid disasters? What are the potential psychological ramifications? What’s different for a one-time scene vs. playing with your life partner?

Emphasizing emotional safety throughout, Midori will explore a wide range of play from light teasing and embarrassment to serious humiliation.

What’s the difference between a healthy and constructive scene and one that is destructive and harmful?

She will share with you a unique model she’s developed to better understand and create an experience that is hot for all the players involved.
Are you trying to better understand this difficult subject? Have you questioned yourself on your desires or ability to make another squirm? Or have you ever secretly wanted to be put on the spot or shown how really naughty you are? Then this class is for you!

This is a lecture style class with discussions and visual examples.

There may be a live humiliation scene, or a demonstration of a live negotiation of a humiliation scene, as part of this learning experience.
*If you want to read up a little on this topic in advance, read her chapter on Humiliation Play in her book “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink

Midori’s Scarf Bondage and The Scarf Dildo Harness

Fit’s Like a Charm! 

Midori came up with this totally simple, amazing DIY Dildo Harness design. It’s also known as the Midori Elegant Harness. It’s great for all body types, genders, configuration of bits. It works great with either after-market-store-bought or original-issue-self-sprouted bits.

Prior class attendees have said the following about this harness:

  • “The harness is remarkably stable!”
  • “Fantastic for insertable dildos”
  • “Clever and simple”

She’ll have all the tools with class-dildos, but you’re encouraged to bring your own so that you can practice with what you will use later. Scarves will be available, but if you have a couple of long scarves or ropes, you can bring them too.


Office Hours With Midori

Welcome to office hours with the dean of kink herself.

Drop in to visit, get her advice, ask questions, pour your heart out, have some good conversations, pick her brain, and meet other Boundless folks.

  • Need advice on how to make the most out of the Retreat or kink spaces in general?
  • Something on your mind?
  • Looking for no BS information?
  • Or maybe you just want to enjoy a chill, low-key place with nice people.

Everyone is welcome!

Midori is a full-time educator and coach, who works with individuals as well as advising and helping therapists to be kink knowledgeable.
Stop by any time during office hours – the door is open for you