Relax • Play • Bond

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Hello to all of our awesome Bounders,

We are all missing each other so much during these difficult times, especially right now as we near closer to the dates of the Boundless Retreat. As we’re sure you’re already aware, the coronavirus (COVID-19) pandemic has meant that it’s vital to limit social contact and avoid gatherings. For that reason, CDC and State Mandates, and for everyone’s safety, we’ve made the incredibly difficult decision to cancel the June 2020 Boundless Retreat . While we know this is disappointing, (it is heart breaking) we hope you understand the steps we’re taking to help keep everyone safe.


What happens next?

We are working with current ticket holders on solutions that will be to the benefit of all. We are very much hoping that we can roll over most of the funds to next year’s retreat. We are also setting our sights on the 2021 Boundless Retreat and upcoming parties and events once it is deemed safe enough that we can host them again.   If you have any questions or concerns, please get in touch here: or take a look at our website to keep track of what Boundless is doing next: or via our Fetlife page at We are looking forward to when we can celebrate each other being able to spend time together again. We are missing everyone so very much.

Thank you for being a part of our Boundless Family, and for your love and understanding during these unprecedented times. To find out more about the virus and how you can also help, visit the NHS,, or WHO websites.


Classes, Workshops, and Events

Stay tuned for our upcoming workshops schedule. In the meantime, you can whet your appetite by reading about last year’s classes.

In prior years, featured workshops such as Cleo Dubois and Fakir Musafar “Dance of the Flogger” and “Heart Centered Needle Pull” ritual, and Sinclair Sexsmith and rife’s “Flirting Dirty” mixer and “The Art of Ownership,” were terrific opportunities to learn from and get to know these community leaders as well as our fellow Boundless campers.


This is unlike any camping trip you’ve ever experienced. You will not be roughing it with the amenities we have to offer.

“The setting was wonderful. It was much more relaxing than being at a hotel convention. I liked the size of the group and how accessible the organizers were. I liked the diversity of the crowd.”

Maybe you’ll be in a tent. Perhaps you’ll enjoy the group lodging or a spot for your RV. So far that sounds like camping, but there’s so much more. Since this is a BDSM, kink get-a-way, we do have the 2,400 square foot indoor dungeon as well as acres of outdoor play spaces. This is all tucked away in an exclusive 260 acre private valley.

We’ve got several days of classes, workshops, and activities planned out for you. We’ve previously had Carol Queen, Cleo Dubois, Fakir Musafar, Sinclair Sexsmith, Robert Lawrence, Madison Young, and James Mogul as presenters and this year will include similar luminaries from the community. Several individuals are hosting mini-workshops on the lawn for small groups or one-on-one experiences. Saturday evening includes a thought-provoking ceremonial fire circle.

No need to bring food, you’ll be eating full catered meals while you stay with us. Both omnivore and veggie options, breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Snacks too!

Let’s not forget the huge swimming pool, large hot tub, and outdoor patio for relaxing. Those warm, sultry days are great for relaxing in the water. And, yes, of course it’s clothing optional.

Off-site Lodging

Key to the Boundless retreat’s success is the intimacy and sense of safety and trust that we cultivate by having a closed community. As in/out traffic works against this objective, we strongly prefer all attendees to remain on the property throughout the duration of the retreat. If you must stay at a hotel, eg. for mobility/medical reasons, please email ahead of the retreat.


Volunteer at the Boundless Campout!

Boundless is seeking helping hands for shifts during the campout weekend—greeters, parking, and hospitality crew to help attendees settle in, plus DMs and, to either side of the weekend, help with delivering and setting up/breaking down furniture.

Boundless relies on the strength of community and your generous hearts. Volunteering is easy, and great fun—you’ll make deeper connections that enrich your campout experience. For more info, please contact us at

Become even more connected to the Boundless community, and take pride in facilitating a successful, exciting weekend!

Boundless Events Calendar

  • Boundless Virtual Happy Hour

    July 23, 2020  6:00 pm - 7:30 pm
    ONLINE - Via Zoom - Read Event for Info

    Join us for the Virtual Boundless Happy Hour.
    6:00 PM til maybe 7:30

    Event is Free. Tips and Donations are graciously appreciated.

    See Zoom link & rules, below

    Boundless Virtual Happy Hour Rules and Guidelines

    PLEASE READ ALL OF THE FOLLOWING — Contains meeting login, protocol and conduct info, and other important stuff!

    The Boundless Virtual Happy Hour replicates our monthly Berkeley and Sacramento munches. Boundless social events are not only a way for current members to stay connected, but also a chance for new folks to get to know us—therefore, this is not a sex party.

    Boundless Happy Hour is a free event for all adults 21+. Please consider supporting Boundless through a donation of any amount to our virtual tip jar:

    Protocol and Conduct:
    Established Boundless Event rules for in-person events apply:

    Additional rules for virtual events:

    • AGE LIMITS & ACTIVE PARTICIPATION: In virtual events, the area/room within EACH participant's space becomes part of the event space and should be treated as such by each participants. This means that everyone in your immediate area/room must be 21+ and be an active participant in the event. We would like YOUR full and active participation as well, so please refrain from multi-tasking during the event.
    • DRESS CODE & BEHAVIOR: This is NOT a sex party, and, we ask that you please act accordingly: wear clothes, refrain from sexual behavior, and do as you would when showing up at a bar or restaurant. Sexy clothes that you would wear in public, bawdy conversation, and flirting are welcome, but please don’t flash your naughty bits.
    • VIDEO CAMERAS ON: This is required for all to enjoy socializing—blackout participation is not allowed. (Masks are ok, but we would rather see your fabulous faces.)
    • NO RECORDING OR SCREEN SHOTS ALLOWED: Please respect the privacy of others. That said, there is the risk that someone will record and/or misuse your image and you are therefore entering the virtual space at your own risk.
    • CONDUCT & HELP: If you are experiencing tech issues, a conduct situation, or any other urgent matter, please message the SUPPORT FAIRY in the chat sidebar. (If you wish to be private, be sure to select “To: SUPPORT FAIRY” and not “To: Everyone”)

    Violation of standards will result in immediate expulsion from the event by staff and a Conduct Team review.

    Hosted by members of your friendly BOUNDLESS TEAM:
    specifics / TBA

    Before joining the meeting:
    : If you haven’t already done so (you may use the free version), and familiarize yourself with the controls. In the desktop version, controls become visible when you hover your cursor at the bottom of the screen. On the phone, tap the screen to make the controls appear.
    • CHECK YOUR PROFILE NAME: Zoom displays the names of all participants, so if you prefer to use your scene name, you will need to update your profile name. Best to do this before you join the meeting.
    • TURN YOUR VIDEO CAMERA ON: This is required—we want you visible.
    • CHECK YOUR ENVIRONMENT: Be sure there are no non-active participants in your room/immediate area, and nothing in view that you wouldn’t want others to see. Feel free to use the Virtual Background feature (click the arrow next to video control to access).
    • WEAR CLOTHES: As we do at our in-person happy hours—this is purposely a relaxed, social event, not a sex event.
    • HAVE FUN!

    After the meetup:
    • We welcome your feedback: please email us at

    THIS IS A BIG EXPERIMENT—please be patient with tech glitches, directives, etc. Mostly, just relax and enjoy each other’s company.

    Join Zoom Meeting

    Boundless Events is inviting you to a scheduled Zoom meeting.

    Topic: Boundless Happy Hour
    Meeting ID: 736 674 2333
    Password: Boundless

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    This is the link to the Fetlife Boundless Calendar of Events so that you may RSVP to any and all events listed.

  • CANCELLED - Boundless Berkeley Happy Hour

    July 23, 2020  6:00 pm - 8:00 pm
    The Albatross Pub, 1822 San Pablo Ave, Berkeley, CA 94702, USA


    Come join us for a the monthly Boundless Happy Hour! All orientations, experience levels and interests are welcome. The Boundless Happy Hour is a casual and relaxed event held at the Albatross Bar in Berkeley, near University Ave and San Pablo. Come unwind after work with new and old friends alike. We will meet in the back left corner of the bar, in front of the fire place.

    This is the link to the Fetlife Boundless Calendar of Events so that you may RSVP to any and all events listed.

  • CANCELLED - Boundless Sacramento Happy Hour

    July 23, 2020  7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
    Q St Bar and Grill (Benny's), 2013 Q street, Sacramento CA


    Please join us on the Fourth Thursday of each month, at Q Street Bar & Grill (2013 Q street), for another evening of conviviality and tasty drinks.
    Whether you're a Boundless regular or curious about our community and events, we welcome you. All genders, experience levels, orientations, fetishes—come share in good conversation and beer. 21+, no cover; 7pm–9pm.

    - If the Happy Hour falls on a holiday, then it will be held on the third Thursday of the month.

    This is the Link to the Fetlife Boundless Sacramento Munch Group on Fetlife

    This is the link to the Fetlife Boundless Calendar of Events so that you may RSVP to any and all events listed.

  • CANCELLED - Boundless Bay Area Krunch

    August 8, 2020  10:00 am - 12:00 pm
    Buttercup, 229 Broadway, Oakland, CA 94607, USA

    Watch for our Virtual Events in support of Social Distancing!

    Boundless Krunch (Kinky + Brunch = Krunch) is a casual monthly social brunch at ButtercuP Cafe near Jack London Square in Oakland, open to all adults 18+, regardless of whether you have attended the main retreat campout. Whether you want to stay connected with old friends or make new ones, Boundless Krunch is a great way to do both.

    We meet the second Saturday of every month at ButtercuP cafe at 229 Broadway, Oakland CA, from 10am–noon. You can usually find us in the back banquet room. It can sometimes be crowded so we recommend showing up as close to 10am as you can, but feel free to come by any time you can make it.

    This is the link to join the Fetlife Boundless Krunch Group on Fetlife

    This is the link to the Fetlife Boundless Calendar of Events so that you may RSVP to any and all events listed.

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