Relax • Play • Bond

A four-day intimate kink retreat at a beautiful secluded resort just north of San Francisco.

“Diverse group, wonderful community—everything felt very safe, welcoming, accepting and celebratory—amazing weekend.”

Boundless provides a unique experience that brings together people from every corner of the BDSM, leather, and the sex-positive worlds; providing both the intimacy of a party with friends and the opportunity to get to know new people over the course of a few days. Boundless is a place where you can arrive as strangers and leave belonging to new community. That’s why we say, Relax, Play, Bond.

All experience levels, kinks, fetishes, sex positive attitudes, genders, and orientations are welcome; there is no such thing as “not being kinky enough.” Kink is a state of mind.


Limited number of tickets, get yours now!

Boundless is a 4 day (Friday noon to Monday morning), 3 night, all inclusive, fully catered event. There is group lodging, RV, and tent camping under the trees, great food, real showers and bathrooms, classes/workshops, a large relaxing hot tub, a refreshing shaded swimming pool, plus hiking around the beautiful grounds. And unlike an event in a big city, we have this secluded resort all to ourselves.



  • Full retreat weekend (Friday to Monday)
  • Fully catered meals
  • Pool and hot tub access
  • Real bathrooms and hot showers
  • Classes, Workshops, and Events
  • Indoor/outdoor play spaces
  • Tent or RV camping (see rates for vehicle camping)

Classes, Workshops, and Events

Stay tuned for our upcoming workshops schedule. In the meantime, you can whet your appetite by reading about last year’s classes.

In prior years, featured workshops such as Cleo Dubois and Fakir Musafar “Dance of the Flogger” and “Heart Centered Needle Pull” ritual, and Sinclair Sexsmith and rife’s “Flirting Dirty” mixer and “The Art of Ownership,” were terrific opportunities to learn from and get to know these community leaders as well as our fellow Boundless campers.


This is unlike any camping trip you’ve ever experienced. You will not be roughing it with the amenities we have to offer.

“The setting was wonderful. It was much more relaxing than being at a hotel convention. I liked the size of the group and how accessible the organizers were. I liked the diversity of the crowd.”

Maybe you’ll be in a tent. Perhaps you’ll enjoy the group lodging or a spot for your RV. So far that sounds like camping, but there’s so much more. Since this is a BDSM, kink get-a-way, we do have the 2,400 square foot indoor dungeon as well as acres of outdoor play spaces. This is all tucked away in an exclusive 260 acre private valley.

We’ve got several days of classes, workshops, and activities planned out for you. We’ve previously had Carol Queen, Cleo Dubois, Fakir Musafar, Sinclair Sexsmith, Robert Lawrence, Madison Young, and James Mogul as presenters and this year will include similar luminaries from the community. Several individuals are hosting mini-workshops on the lawn for small groups or one-on-one experiences. Saturday evening includes a thought-provoking ceremonial fire circle.

No need to bring food, you’ll be eating full catered meals while you stay with us. Both omnivore and veggie options, breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Snacks too!

Let’s not forget the huge swimming pool, large hot tub, and outdoor patio for relaxing. Those warm, sultry days are great for relaxing in the water. And, yes, of course it’s clothing optional.

Off-site Lodging

Key to the Boundless retreat’s success is the intimacy and sense of safety and trust that we cultivate by having a closed community. As in/out traffic works against this objective, we strongly prefer all attendees to remain on the property throughout the duration of the retreat. If you must stay at a hotel, eg. for mobility/medical reasons, please email ahead of the retreat.


Volunteer at the Boundless Campout!

Boundless is seeking helping hands for shifts during the campout weekend—greeters, parking, and hospitality crew to help attendees settle in, plus DMs and, to either side of the weekend, help with delivering and setting up/breaking down furniture.

Boundless relies on the strength of community and your generous hearts. Volunteering is easy, and great fun—you’ll make deeper connections that enrich your campout experience. For more info, please contact us at

Become even more connected to the Boundless community, and take pride in facilitating a successful, exciting weekend!

Boundless Events Calendar

  • CANCELLED - Boundless Bay Area Krunch

    April 11, 2020  10:00 am - 12:00 pm
    Buttercup, 229 Broadway, Oakland, CA 94607, USA

    Boundless Community -

    Due to the Corona Virus Situation we will be canceling the Boundless Krunch this month as a precautionary measure to protect our community and those around us. Thank you for your understanding and please stay healthy!

    Boundless Team

    Boundless Krunch (Kinky + Brunch = Krunch) is a casual monthly social brunch at ButtercuP Cafe near Jack London Square in Oakland, open to all adults 18+, regardless of whether you have attended the main retreat campout. Whether you want to stay connected with old friends or make new ones, Boundless Krunch is a great way to do both.

    We meet the second Saturday of every month at ButtercuP cafe at 229 Broadway, Oakland CA, from 10am–noon. You can usually find us in the back banquet room. It can sometimes be crowded so we recommend showing up as close to 10am as you can, but feel free to come by any time you can make it.

    This is the link to join the Fetlife Boundless Krunch Group on Fetlife

    This is the link to the Fetlife Boundless Calendar of Events so that you may RSVP to any and all events listed.

  • ** CANCELLED ** Boundless Play + Sauna Party - SEE EXPLANATION BELOW

    April 11, 2020  7:00 pm - 12:00 am
    Temescal area of Oakland CA (location revealed after ticket purchase)

    Dear Boundless Community,

    We wish to keep you apprised of what we are doing in response to the COVID-19 (novel coronavirus) situation.

    First and foremost, we assure you that the Organizers teams are in active discussion of the issue, and are staying up to date on all available information:

    ▪︎ We continue to review status reports from reliable government sources, as well as personal connections within the epidemiology and medical communities.

    ▪︎ And we are in communication with other Leather and sex+ organizations, as it helps to have a unified approach to the situation.

    In light of the close proximity (ahem) and numbers of people who attend our parties, we have decided that it would be prudent … to cancel the April 11 Play Party.

    Boundless is all about community, and you all are what makes this community so very special. Together and apart, we can help protect one another while remaining connected. We encourage you to be active in our Facebook and FetLife groups—your posts relevant to the community are welcome, and a terrific way to continue building what we share.

    In the meantime, we are keeping a close eye on the situation, and will keep you, our Boundless community, apprised of any changes.

    Some resources:

    Vox Guide to Covid-19

    Coronavirus: It’s up to us to flatten the curve.

    Thank you and we wish you the best of health.

    From the Boundless Team

    We're sorry we had to cancel but we wanted to keep everyone well and safe.

    'Xxxxxx CANCELLED xxxx

    We invite you to come play with us at out next Play Party! All experience levels, genders, and orientations welcome. Brand new to the world of kink parties? Our welcoming team will be happy to answer any questions. We’ll have our fully equipped dungeon, and cuddle and conversation areas, plus a multi-head communal shower and dry sauna. There will be lots of time for socializing, sauna-ing, snacking, spanking, and sex-ing. Plenty of snacks and refreshing, non-alcoholic beverages provided; BYOB alcohol OK. Pack an extra towel or two if you plan on using the sauna or shower. Our parties are in the Temescal area of Oakland and easily reachable by mass transit and a short Lyft ride from MacArthur BART.

    This is the link to the Fetlife Boundless Calendar of Events so that you may RSVP to any and all events listed. (

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