the 2023 Boundless RETREAT: Saturday EVENT SCHEDULE

Friends of Bill W

Location:  The Sanctuary

Join us in a 12-Step group adapted from multiple fellowship models. All people seeking recovery from anything are welcome.

Sunrise Flow yoga

Location:  Heart Lodge

Wake–up yoga will gently energize you for a joyous day. Folx with all body types and all experience levels are welcomed. Clothing is optional.

What to Bring:

• Your mat & any props you’d like. Some mats available.

Sunrise Flow yoga

Location:  Heart Lodge

Wake–up yoga will gently energize you for a joyous day. Folx with all body types and all experience levels are welcomed. Clothing is optional.

What to Bring:

• Your mat & any props you’d like. Some mats available.

Breakfast

Location:  Main Lodge

Rise and shine – it’s time to really get things at the Retreat going full-steam. Come join us for some breakfast, coffee, and community. 

BIPOC Mixer

Location: Pleasure Dome

A meetup by, and for, people of color to connect and celebrate us!

Community-led Skill Shares

Location:  Poolside Dungeon

Do you have a skill that you’d love to share with others but didn’t get it on the official schedule? These times are held for you to “create your own adventure.”

If you’d like to share a skill or talent, sign-up for these slots at the Main Lodge.

Boundless Check-in Open

Location: Greeter Station 1

Arrival and check-in for all guests reopens for those that could not arrive on Friday. Please make sure that you have your Government Issued ID, and a photo of your negative COVID Antigen Test taken within 24 hours of the event.

CLASS: Resourceful Restraints

Location: Heart Lodge

Learn how common objects such as a belt, a chair, a towel, and a pillowcase can be utilized in ways that will make the space you stand in all the equipment you’ll need. Achieve skills that will WOW your partner and astonish your friends, as you implement firm, dynamic, and innovative bondage control moves, that few know and most have never seen. Essentially, the “Bondage of Everyday Objects,” the information in this workshop will change the way you look at so-called ‘ordinary’ things!

All shapes, sizes, genders, and personal identities are welcome.

What to Bring:

• Belt with a single or double tongue buckle, a towel, and a pillowcase.

CLASS: Flirting Dirty (with Flirting Bingo!)

Location: The Meadow

Many of us come to kink retreats for enlightenment — just kidding, I meant: to flirt, fuck, and play. But making it happen in real life can be a lot harder than we want it to be.

Do you wish more people would hit on you? How do you make yourself more available?

We can all use some practice asking for what we want, but how do you escalate from flirting to foreplay and foreplay to fucking? Learn to perfect the art of the tease, use negotiations as foreplay, and make sex even hotter in the process. We’ll play “flirting bingo,” have a chance to practice different flirting styles, and who knows?

You might even find somebody of interest.

Skill Share: Clit-Stroking for Connection

Location:  Cuddlespace

Learn techniques of mindful clit-stroking to create connection between you and your partner. Bring a partner or pair up in class for practice.

What to Bring:

•  A towel
• Non-drying lube
• 2 cushions/pillows for comfort. Yoga mats available

Skillshare: How to Build a Fuck Machine

Location:  Pleasure Dome

See a demo of a DIY fuck machine, and learn how you can build your own.

Lunch

Location:  Main Lodge

Are you feeling hungry and ready to spend more time with your community? Make sure you take a break from your scheduled and come have some lunch.

CLASS: Hot Squirming Erotic Humiliation Play

Location:  The Meadow

Why do people get off on being embarrassed or humiliated? Is this a style of play you’ve struggled to understand or be understood? Do you want to understand how to do this well and avoid disasters? What are the potential psychological ramifications? What’s different for a one-time scene vs. playing with your life partner?

Emphasizing emotional safety throughout, Midori will explore a wide range of play from light teasing and embarrassment to serious humiliation.

What’s the difference between a healthy and constructive scene and one that is destructive and harmful?

She will share with you a unique model she’s developed to better understand and create an experience that is hot for all the players involved.

This is a lecture style class with discussions and visual examples.

There may be a live humiliation scene, or a demonstration of a live negotiation of a humiliation scene, as part of this learning experience.
*If you want to read up a little on this topic in advance, read her chapter on Humiliation Play in her book “Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink.”

What to Bring:

• Pen and paper for note taking

CLASS: Hip Basket Suspension System

Location:  Heart Lodge

Learn how to utilize the Hip Basket Suspension System, a dynamic tying system that allows movement and control like no other suspension technique, before! Utilizing both a seated and tabletop rigging set up, the techniques shown focus on the physics of the human body, skillful and sustainable body support, and suspending people of all shapes, sizes, and comfort levels.

Note: This section will include both step-by-step teaching and demonstration elements, as time allows.

All shapes, sizes, genders, and personal identities are welcome.

What to Bring

• Two 20, one 40, and two 50-foot lengths of 6 mm Hemp, Jute, or 3/8-inch Solid Braid Nylon.
• Instructor will show how to connect shorter hanks of rope, if longer lengths aren’t available.

SKILL SHARE: Negotiation Lab

Location:  Poolside Dungeon

Learn to negotiate truly great and even life-changing play experiences: include the ways we want to feel and the thoughts we want to have.

Clothing & Toy Swap

Location:  Heart Lodge Porch

Contribute your gently used fetish clothing, toys, and accessories. You don’t need to bring something to take something, just come! The swap will be available until Sunday dinner time. Please make sure you pickup any of your items that did not find a new home.

Skill Share: Sensual Single Tail

Location:  Poolside Dungeon

You’ll learn about the sensual side of the whip and how to use the whip on your bottom with confidence.

Class: Intro to Play Piercing

Location:  Heart Lodge

This class will teach the basics of play piercing and offer a demo. We’ll cover everything from basic safety precautions, supplies, & more.

This class will teach the basic of play piercing and offer a play piercing demo. We will discuss basic safety precautions from a professional piercing perspective, the supplies you will need and where to buy them. We’ll go over physiology and anatomy with concerns as to piercing, cleaning and prepping skin, needle choices, piercing technique and how to use breath to control the experience. We’ll perform a few play piercings so you can observe technique.

At the end we will both walk you through each step from both our perspectives. We’ll also talk about the needle removal process and how to clean the skin, dispose of sharps and coming down.

Exhibitionists & Voyeurs Happy Hour

Location:  The Meadow

A happy hour where exhibitionists are encouraged to wear as little as possible and voyeurs are encouraged to look as much as they like. Come enjoy the fun!

Skill Share: Hand & Foot Massage Pairs

Location:  Cuddlespace

Join us in this workshop for a relaxing and enjoyable experience learning to give great hand and foot massages using lotion.

What to Bring:

• Your favorite lotion

Dinner

Location:  Main Lodge

After today’s busy day, we’re absolutely sure that you’re going to need to grab something to eat to replenish yourselves before the evening of play. Come join us for some dinner and community. 

Cigar/Whiskey Social

Location:  Poolside Smoking Area

Relax with other cigar and whiskey aficionados for a smoke and drink by the pool. BYOC and there will be some complimentary cigars available.