With endless classes for Dominants to learn how to express their power, submissives are left to learn things the hard way. We have to soul search, figure out where the lines are, learn lessons the hard way, discover boundaries we didn’t know we had... because they seemed self-explanatory. The list goes on. Our journey is fundamentally different from the Dom’s and it is profound and beautiful in its own way. But it is by no stretch of the imagination painless.